In the world of showbiz, we often hear the phrase “move on.” But it seems that this word is elusive for some personalities who are still attached to their past. The latest issue that is stirring up social media is the talk of Xian Lim reconnecting with his ex-girlfriend Kim Chiu. In the midst of Kim’s happy relationship with her new partner Paulo Avelino, or better known as “KimPau,” it seems that there is a shadow trying to penetrate and disturb their silence.

Many were surprised and angry when news broke that Xian still hasn’t stopped giving his opinion and reaction to what’s going on in Kim’s life. According to reports, the actor seems to still want to talk to the Chinita Princess to discuss her relationship with her current boyfriend. The question that many are asking is: Why now? And why does he have to interfere in something he no longer has the right to?

It can be recalled that Xian was the one who decided to leave the relationship and go with someone else, which was a source of great sadness for KimXi fans back then. But now that Kim seems to have found true happiness with Paulo, many have noticed that the actor seems to be cleaning up and trying to make statements as if he is the one who is aggrieved. These comments were not missed by netizens who always follow their idols’ every move.

In the news, Xian’s reactions to Kim’s relationship with other people were emphasized, as if he still had control or ownership over the actress. This type of behavior was called “toxic” and “bitter” by many. In fact, comments on social media were full of hate against the actor. One netizen said that “a man, loves to interfere,” while others reminded that Kim and Paulo’s relationship already has the blessing of their parents, so any ex should not care.

It’s also impossible to avoid comparing the careers of the two. While Kim Chiu continues to shine in various projects, endorsements, and successful series, it seems that Xian’s career is slowly fading. Since she moved to another network, critics have noticed that her name seems to be less popular and she is no longer being given big projects like before. Some even say that Kim was the one who “lifted” Xian’s career when they were together, and now that the actress is no longer by his side, it seems that he has also lost his shine in front of the camera.

Karma is also a word that is often thrown at Xian these days. Despite having a relationship with a director, his work in the industry is reportedly still not going well. His sudden disappearance from mainstream news—except when it has to do with Kim—gives the impression that he is just using his ex-girlfriend’s name to stay “relevant” to the public.

On the other hand, Kim Chiu remains quiet and professional despite all this noise. Her focus is on her work and her growing relationship with Paulo Avelino. KimPau is one of the most popular couples today, and their chemistry is evident not only on television but also in real life. The fans’ support for them is undeniable, which is why any attempt at outside interference is immediately slammed by the public.

Ultimately, this issue serves as a lesson about respect and acceptance. Once a chapter is closed, it should stay closed. Forcing yourself back into the life of someone you once hurt shows not caring, but a lack of respect for yourself and others. The public is wiser now; they know who is honest and who is just pretending for attention.

As Xian continues to be showered with “karma” and negative reactions, the call of many remains: Let Kim Chiu be happy. Her success and happiness are the result of her hard work and generosity, and no one, especially an ex, should stand in the way or question this. Kim and Paulo’s story is a new beginning that everyone should respect.