Whether it’s to cheer or to shock, the controversy between the famous Toro Family and their former nanny, Marigold Pacete Borbon , seems to have no end . In the latest episode of the family’s reality show, viewers were shocked when “Papi” directly mentioned Marigold’s full name. Not only that, he allegedly released some of her private documents on the show, including the names of her children—a move that immediately heightened tensions and sparked widespread discussion on social media.

While the scene was being aired, Papi boldly said:
“If you’re strict like that, mom, they’ll immediately think of you as a poor person. But when you’re kind, they’ll abuse you.”

This statement, which seemed like a simple observation, became the spark for a new rumor among the public. Amidst the controversy, Marigold took to her social media account to expose the alleged true story behind the show. According to her, not everything shown on the reality show is true .

In her statement, Marigold strongly admitted that she was paid ₱50,000 to perform in the scene where she is shown hurting Dodong—part of the show’s controversial content plan to get more views online.

“Don’t judge me. I didn’t want it and I didn’t really hurt anyone. I just did it because I was paid ₱50,000. I’m a single mother, with three children in school—so who am I to say no?” said Marigold, strongly showing what she goes through as a mother who works hard for her family.

But she was even more upset when her children were involved in the show. She insisted that there was no agreement in the original agreement to show her children’s faces or names, and she was very surprised to see such information in the episode.

“I only came out with my side because it wasn’t included in the conversation that my children would be included. All I know is that’s all that should be in the scripted scene. I was surprised when even the children’s names were used,” he added.

Marigold said CCTV footage showed that all the scenes were scripted , and that no real violence occurred. She also mentioned that there were other scenes that were more intense, but the family did not dwell on them because they knew they were just part of the script.

“If you noticed in the first video, I was wearing a mask, then in the next one I wasn’t—because that was all we agreed on. I was just playing with my post because I was really surprised that even my child was involved,” Marigold explained.

On the other hand, Papi immediately responded and strongly denied all of Marigold’s allegations. According to him, it is not true that the former nanny was paid to hurt their child or to create a scripted scene just for the content.

Meanwhile, it is not yet certain whether Marigold actually owns the account she used to issue the statement. She also reportedly said that she would deactivate it after her side was released. However, the viral statement sparked a wider online discussion, further deepening the issue and adding to public tension.

Many are now demanding that the family speak out and clarify the allegations, while others are calling for more responsible and responsible use of social media, especially when children are involved. The incident has opened up a discussion about the ethics behind reality shows, especially in scenes involving children or other vulnerable individuals.

The controversy also highlighted the dilemma faced by many women in the industry—especially single mothers—who accept such projects. According to Marigold, paying her is a way to support her family, not to hurt other people.

“I am a single mother with three children who are studying. Who am I to turn down an opportunity that could benefit them?” she clarified.

Overall, the viral issue between Marigold Pacete Borbon and the Toro Family is not just a matter of showbiz drama, but also a reminder of how social media can affect the reputation of people and their families. It also shows the dangers of giving private information to the public, especially to the children involved.

As the incident continues to be a source of debate, netizens remain highly curious about what the Toro Family will do next, and how they will put their side in the controversy. Marigold’s outburst underscored the importance of transparency, accountability, and clear agreements between production teams and their talents.

The incident served as a reminder that in the world of entertainment, every scene has the power to influence people’s lives , and the right balance of ethics and responsibility is essential to avoid this kind of controversy.

Ultimately, Marigold’s message remains: “Once a yaya, always a yaya—but respect and dignity for the family, especially for children, must be maintained.” Her statement emphasized that behind every scene in showbiz, there are real lives that are affected—and this should be respected by everyone.