An emotional episode in the love life of prominent transwoman and content creator Lars Pacheco has become the center of social media conversation after she confirmed her split from long-time boyfriend Clyde Vevas . Their seven-year marriage seemed to be an inspiration to many, so their supporters were surprised by the sudden announcement of their separation on August 20 , via a Facebook post by Lars.

In his post, Lars expressed his feelings about his relationship with Clyde. Attached to a black and white photo of them hugging, he wrote, “7 years it was. No regrets, just memories made. I wish you healing, I wish myself forgiveness.” This was followed by a Facebook reel using the song “Lost Stars,” where Lars can be seen getting emotional while sitting, with the caption “It was beautiful seven years” accompanied by a heart emoji.

The post soon went viral and garnered mixed reactions from netizens. Many said they couldn’t believe the news and even shared their own experiences with the so-called “seventh year itch” — the theory that the seventh year of a relationship is the most critical. Many were also disappointed and saddened, especially the followers of their vlogs , who served as inspiration for their faith in love.

However, in Lars’ next update, he finally admitted the reason behind their breakup — his repeated infidelity with Clyde. In a long and honest statement, Lars said that he himself made the decision to end the relationship after seven years. He said that he could no longer bear the weight of his guilt and wanted to end the relationship before it led to greater pain.

“I decided to end it up last 3 days ago. I wanted to confess everything that I did because all this time he knew that I’m being unfaithful. But I didn’t have the courage to say it to him personally. So habang natutulog siya, I left and confessed everything in a message.”

Lars also made it clear that this was not a way to escape or find another replacement. Rather, it was a decision for forgiveness — not just for Clyde, but for himself as well. He admitted that his cheating was not an accident, but the result of deliberate decisions he made.

“I don’t know why I did what I did. I don’t know myself. But all I know is, all of that was my choice.”

According to Lars, he chose to break up because he knew he already had feelings for someone else , and he no longer wanted to pretend that he could return the love he once showered on Clyde. He said he could no longer return Clyde’s love — a love that he said was rarely found in others.

“Clyde loves me more than he loves anybody else. But I can’t return that love. I don’t want to be unfair to him.”

She further described their relationship as part of a deeper personal journey. She said that since she had a relationship at the age of 15 , it was only now that she felt true freedom and self-knowledge after three live-in relationships in eleven years.

His confession was not easy for fans to accept, especially when he admitted that he might have also been an obstacle to Clyde’s personal growth.

“I feel like I’m the reason why Clyde isn’t growing. Because I’m here. Maybe this is the best decision — to let go of each other. It’s hard, but it’s what’s best for both of us.”

On the other hand, Clyde also expressed his feelings on his Facebook page. Like Lars, he also has no regrets about their relationship. However, the way his girlfriend left him was painful for him — while he was sleeping , he left her a long message.

“It’s just sad that you left me while I was sleeping. I wish you had talked to me first. But maybe that’s how it is when you lose love.”

She expressed the intense pain she felt but remained peaceful and honest about her feelings for Lars. She ended her message with a farewell full of love and prayers for her ex-boyfriend.

“I love you so much. Goodbye.”

Lars and Clyde’s breakup is just another example of how long and beautiful a relationship is, it’s no guarantee of lasting . Despite the pain and mistakes, their story emphasizes the importance of truth, honest communication, and personal growth.

Today, many netizens still hope that they can both find forgiveness, peace, and a new beginning , even though they are no longer together.

What do you think about Lars’ admission of his mistake and the end of their seven-year relationship? Share your opinion in the comments.