Seriously, ladies! If you thought everything was over between Ruffa Gutierrez and her ex-husband Yilmaz Bektas, think again! In the past few days, Ruffa’s name has suddenly become a hot topic on social media after a shocking revelation related to her daughter Lorin and her ex Yilmaz.
Father and Mother Reunion
It will be recalled that in 2022, Lorin and his father reunited for the first time in Turkey after so many years of separation. That moment was very emotional, especially since they had not seen each other for more than a decade. Many thought that the father-son relationship was smooth sailing and that they were gradually getting along.
But, according to a source close to Ruffa, not everything is happy behind the smiles and Instagram posts. In fact, there were things that Ruffa couldn’t handle when she learned some details about the dynamics of Yilmaz’s relationship with their son Lorin.
The “Shocking” Discovery
According to the news, while Lorin was on vacation in Turkey, there were times when Ruffa didn’t know where her son was and who his friends were with. There were days when Lorin didn’t respond to her mother’s messages, and this is when Ruffa started to get alarmed.
One day, Ruffa received a message from a friend in Istanbul saying that Lorin had been seen with Yilmaz’s new friends — people Ruffa didn’t know and who had a “questionable” lifestyle. Because of this, Ruffa was almost going crazy with worry.
“As a mother, you can’t help but feel nervous,” said a source. “Especially when you know there are people who could influence your child in ways you don’t want.”
Lorin covered it up?
Ruffa was even more hurt when she learned that Lorin was covering up some of her encounters with her father. During a confrontation, Ruffa asked her son why he wasn’t updated on his activities, and this is where a small argument broke out.
“I don’t blame him, but I’m hurt,” Ruffa allegedly told her brother Raymond. “I just want to know the truth, but it feels like I’m the enemy.”
There are even rumors that Lorin became cold towards Ruffa after she returned to Manila, as if she was carrying a grudge or a new perspective about their family.
Yilmaz, Is There a Feeling?
Another surprise for Ruffa was that she learned that Yilmaz had started to show affection for her son… and for her as well! Yes, you read that right — Yilmaz has reportedly been making attempts to contact Ruffa recently. It’s not clear if this is due to rekindled feelings or if he simply wants to be involved in their children’s lives.
But according to people close to the Gutierrez family, Ruffa is not open to having a “relationship” with Yilmaz again — especially since he still carries a lot of unresolved trauma from their past.
“There are so many wounds that still haven’t completely healed,” the source added. “That’s why it’s not easy to get back together or even be friends.”
How is Lorin doing?
Lorin is currently studying in the US and seems to be focused on her studies. But some say she’s noticed a change in her demeanor since meeting her father. She’s more mature, but also more reserved — as if there are things she doesn’t immediately tell her mom.
Of course, Ruffa is still concerned. She says she doesn’t want to ruin her relationship with her son, but she also wants to make sure Lorin is safe and emotionally protected.
What’s Next?
The question of the people today: Is there a possibility of reconciliation or is this another fight between the Gutierrez and Bektas clans?
Not everything is clear yet, but one thing is for sure: this is not the end of the story. In a cryptic post by Ruffa on Instagram, she said: “Sometimes, the people you protect the most are the ones who will hurt you the deepest.” Many netizens assumed that this was about Yilmaz — or maybe even Lorin?
One thing is clear: in showbiz, there are no permanent secrets. All secrets are revealed. And in a family like Ruffa’s, no matter how glamorous on the outside, it is still not safe from the wounds of the past.