Carlos Yulo, the world-renowned Filipino gymnast, is once again in the public eye—but this time, not for his athletic achievements. The controversy surrounding Yulo has taken a deeply personal turn, drawing attention from prominent television host Boy Abunda, who publicly addressed what he described as “disrespectful” and “disappointing” behavior by the athlete toward his own family.

The issue began when a video surfaced online showing Yulo involved in a heated argument with his mother. In the video, voices were raised, accusations were made, and the confrontation shocked many fans who had long admired Carlos for his discipline and humility. Shortly afterward, Carlos unfollowed several family members on social media and reportedly blocked his mother and siblings from contacting him.

Boy Abunda, known for his calm and diplomatic approach, initially remained silent on the matter. However, during an episode of his talk show, he finally broke his silence. “As a son myself, and as someone who has seen the sacrifices our parents make, I cannot condone what I saw,” Boy said. “Respect must remain, especially in moments of conflict.”

While Abunda made it clear that he didn’t wish to publicly shame Carlos, he also emphasized the importance of accountability—especially when one’s actions are seen by the public. “Carlos is a role model for the youth,” he continued. “He represents our country on the global stage. And with that comes a responsibility not just to win medals, but to show character.”

Supporters of Carlos were quick to defend him, citing years of pressure, expectation, and possible unresolved issues within the family. Some argued that the video only showed part of the story and that judgments should not be based on incomplete information. Others pointed out that the gymnast had remained largely silent on the issue, avoiding media interviews and public statements about the incident.

On the other hand, Carlos’s mother has since expressed regret and apologized publicly, stating that she only wanted what was best for her son. She tearfully addressed the nation in an emotional press conference, asking for forgiveness and urging her son to find it in his heart to talk again.

Meanwhile, Carlos’s girlfriend, who was also mentioned in several online posts by family members, has stayed mostly out of the spotlight. However, some fans speculate that her involvement may have added tension to the already fragile family dynamics.

In his show, Boy Abunda called for compassion but didn’t back down from stressing the importance of reflection and growth. “We all make mistakes, especially when emotions are high,” he said. “But we must learn. And we must never forget the people who raised us.”

Boy also revealed that his team had reached out to Carlos for an interview to allow him to share his side, but the invitation had not been accepted. “If Carlos wants to speak, my doors are open,” Abunda said. “But until then, I hope he finds clarity and peace.”

Fans remain divided, with many hoping for reconciliation between Carlos and his family. Some netizens praised Boy Abunda for handling the situation with sensitivity, while others questioned whether the issue should have been addressed at all, arguing it was a private family matter.

As the story continues to unfold, one thing is clear: the nation still holds Carlos Yulo in high regard. But his recent actions have opened discussions about family, respect, and the pressures faced by young public figures.

In closing, Boy Abunda reminded his audience, “We are all human. Fame, success, and talent don’t erase the need for humility and love. And in the end, it is not gold medals that define us—but how we treat the people who love us the most.”